How You (Yes, You) Can Get Any Woman

Most guys think there is some cap on the type of woman they can have. They mistakenly believe that there are women who are outside of their reach. The truth of the matter is that you can get any woman if you know what you are doing. You might not be able to get any woman using your current approach, but there are ways to go about improving your approach with women.

1. Don’t put her on a pedestal

For too many guys out there, the problem is everything to do with mindset. You put certain women up so high in your mind that they aren’t even people anymore. You think of them like you might think of a Goddess, and your attitude reflects this. Whether you realize it or not, your behavior will reflect this viewpoint. They will know that you hold them in high regard. If you want to get any woman, you need to recognize that they are just as human as you are.

2. Try to understand women a little better

You need to try and get inside a woman’s head and think from her perspective. Though it might not seem like the case, women need men, too. They are out on the hunt just like you are. The difference is that women are a bit more subtle and they are much better at the game. If you go out into the dating world with this philosophy then you will no longer be intimidated.

3. “Hard to get” is the right way

Have you ever heard a buddy talking about how to play the game? Maybe he uses the phrase “playing hard to get”. This is one way of putting a relatively simple idea. That idea is that you can’t just be available to women when they want you. They have to think you are a challenge, because women love a good challenge. This is especially true with extremely attractive women, because they have plenty of guys willing to roll over for them. If you want to be able to get any woman, then you need to learn how to play the game and make them chase you.

4. Stop doing stupid things

When you try too hard, you start doing stupid things and saying even stupider things. You can NOT approach a woman in the bar and nervously tell her you’ve noticed her all night.¬†You can’t call a woman immediately after you get her number. Women aren’t like you, and think about how you would feel if you were in her shoes. Get out of your head, and into the head of the woman you’re approaching… Think about how your approach (by a total stranger to her!) will sound.

You can get any woman if you will let your natural abilities take over and if you will get out of your own way. Do these things and you’ll have a great chance to get even the hottest woman in the future.