The Five Ultimate Keys to Attracting Women

Attracting women might seem impossible to you, but there are a LOT of ways to make it much easier.

If you are like most guys then you struggle with some self-confidence issues and an innate fear of rejection. You put women on a pedestal and forget that they’re looking for men, too. With that in mind, here are some methods for attracting women that you can use to make the game much easier.

1. Whatever you do, do it with confidence

If there is one word you need to know the most about attracting women, it’s “confidence”. If you’ve got it, you are ahead of the game because most people just don’t. Women value this, and they look to you to be a strong force. Even if you are feeling a little bit shaky, know that women don’t want you to be perfect. They just want you to stand up straight and speak with a purpose.

2. Meet them on their level

One of the biggest problems that men make when trying to attract women is talking about themselves too much. You have to meet a woman at her level, and show that you are interested in her. So rarely do men let women talk about themselves that doing it will earn you big points in today’s dating world. There is a thin line that you must walk when doing this, though.

3. Interested, but not too interested

Like with all things concerning women, there is very little black and white here. We are dealing with shades of gray, and if you want to have success attracting women, you will have to accept this. Though it pays to be legitimately interested in women, you can’t be “too” interested. Women are turned off by guys who are constantly into them. Make sure you keep your distance a little bit if you want to be successful.

4. Who can be funny?

You don’t have to be Jerry Seinfeld to attract women. Anybody can be funny, and this is something that will help you more than almost anything else. Women love to laugh, almost across the board. Women who don’t love to laugh should be off your radar anyway. Don’t try too hard with jokes, but be legitimately witty. This will take off the edge and women will let their guard down a little bit more.

5. Who is the fun guy?

If you want to attract women, then you need to be fun. This is not to say that you have to be the life of the party. Much to the contrary, it will suffice for you to just be genuinely enjoyable to be around. If you can pull this off, then you have a chance to get out there and attract many more women.